MALE AND FEMALE CREATED HE THEM

In this society, I think most relationship problems start way before one starts dating or entering into matrimony, long before one is considered another person's boo, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, or husband. It is because we don't understand, are not taught, and disrespect what it is to be male and female or the role of male and female (Genesis 5:2). How can we get to 'B and C' (boo, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife) without understanding, being taught, and respect what it is to be 'A' (male and female). We put so much effort and resources into trying to be a good boyfriend/girlfriend or husband and wife. We ignore and demean our identity as male and female and how we were created to be what we were meant to be to each other (Genesis 2:23)_when we to be to each other what we were meant to be to each other and respect and see our roles as the fitted piece to each other; then Scripture says: This is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Male and female are created from one unit, but we have lost this unconditional wholeness, so if in this society, our culture, male, and female don't operate in this unity, this oneness, we become one broken piece connecting to another broken piece instead of two whole pieces coming together as one. And still, often, there are those who are in matrimony but still exist in this disconnect. A disconnect that too often is blamed on money, ideas about raising children, family upbringing, irreconcelable differences and other caporeal things when if we look deeper its because of the disrespect, demeaning, and devaluing we have for identity and role as male and female.