Out of a handful of things, there are three things a parent should instill in their children. One is that God is good, thus life is good but it is short so enjoy it. Two is to let them know that you only get one life to live here on earth, so don’t waste it on people and things that will suck the life out of them. Three that in case they do, you’ll always be there when they come running back to you. This is the God mindset.